Just another war : move along now...

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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Sebena » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:25 pm

Dmanwuzhere wrote:
Wolfie wrote:
Dmanwuzhere wrote:Respect here, only means do what I say or you're disrespectful.
Most of those "demanding" respect have no clue to it's actual meaning.
No sweat off my .......

Just get tired of the real disrespectful folks sounding upset when they have yet to be respectful to the first person in their entire in game history :D :D :D :D :D :D :beer




You are last person who can speak of respect


Let me guess because I never do what you tell me :D :D :D :D :D



Nope you never shoe respect to anyone so you don't have right to demand respect.

There are plenty players I respect whom never did what I asked them. Nelson is one of them me and him go way back in hostility but I still respect him
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Dmanwuzhere » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:29 pm

Yeah well all I remember from you every time we had issues is I will tell kart on you......
kinda ruined the respect thing you were hunting :D
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Mack » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:30 pm

Sir Edward Pellew wrote:
Feniks wrote:Respect is a two way street. Have to give some to get some.


This is a false statement Feniks... sorry mate.

Respect is earned and is often a one way street. The new addition to a team doesnt hold the respect of the rest until it is in fact earned. And he cant hope to earn it without first showing it to the veterans of the team. The definition of the word is clear, unfortunately lost in todays day and age. Too many think they are entitled to respect when they've done nothing to earn it. So... they default to not showing any to those deserving and in turn only make it harder on themselves to receive any.



re·spect
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noun
1.
a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.


well i stil stand by the give it get it idea, those who disrespect someone will most likely not get respected from others.. those who respect those around themtend to be respected by thkse around them, in turn RESPECT, GIVE IT, GET IT!

there are people out there that couldnt care any less about respect though they will do as they please sometimes just to go against the grain simply because they can..
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Sebena » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:31 pm

Dmanwuzhere wrote:Yeah well all I remember from you every time we had issues is I will tell kart on you......
kinda ruined the respect thing you were hunting :D



I doubt that i ever mentioned Kart in ozr discussions and all i got from you were threats and profanity so again you have no right to demand respect. And you deal with pro when he was acting like witch dictor showed that you have no right or sense for fair play so cover yourself and go into your dog house doggy
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Dmanwuzhere » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:36 pm

Wolfie wrote:
Dmanwuzhere wrote:Yeah well all I remember from you every time we had issues is I will tell kart on you......
kinda ruined the respect thing you were hunting :D



I doubt that i ever mentioned Kart in ozr discussions and all i got from you were threats and profanity so again you have no right to demand respect. And you deal with pro when he was acting like witch dictor showed that you have no right or sense for fair play so cover yourself and go into your dog house doggy


Lol, you have had 2 witchdoctors in your group and you still have 1 you two faced, kart threatening wimp, who likes to cry just to watch the waters rise, stfu..... better :D
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby xPROx » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:37 pm

Lol Wolfie that's all danik did was cuss and threatened me and said he would do toxic game play to get me to leave y'all along so y'all don't have no where to talk
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby xPROx » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:39 pm

Just like vag no ships but casting port voodoo at me so there u witchdoctor all ready
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Dmanwuzhere » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:42 pm

Banger wrote:Respect
Treating people in a positive manner that acknowledges them for who they are and/or what they are doing. Being treated or treating an individual in a dignified manner.
Respect is earned and is never just given. BUT, you must give respect to receive respect. Meaning when you interact with an individual you treat them with dignity and in a respectful manner as this shows your character as a person. And the respect will be reciprocated. You must always behave in a respectful manner as this reflects on you, your character, integrity and values of who you are as a person.

No one owes you respect until you have earned it, so there is no such thing as I will give it after they give it to me first. That attitude is a disrespectful action to anyone you interact with as it insinuates that you do not trust them to act accordingly, and implies that they "owe" you respect before you will give it. That will cause people to LOSE respect for you or never gain it in the first place. When you first meet someone, everyone is given the benefit of the doubt that they are a respectable individual. Questioning their integrity(respect) before you have even met them and "expecting" respect to be given without giving it yourself is insulting and condescending to that person and is judging them in a negative light when you know absolutely nothing about them.

Thus,
To get respect, you must give it. So respectful behavior should just be part of how you act as a person 100% of the time.
Everyone deserves a basic amount of respect as an individual until proven otherwise.





Yeah what he said :D :D :D
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby sXs » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:55 pm

Sir Edward Pellew wrote:
Feniks wrote:Respect is a two way street. Have to give some to get some.


This is a false statement Feniks... sorry mate.

Respect is earned and is often a one way street. The new addition to a team doesnt hold the respect of the rest until it is in fact earned. And he cant hope to earn it without first showing it to the veterans of the team. The definition of the word is clear, unfortunately lost in todays day and age. Too many think they are entitled to respect when they've done nothing to earn it. So... they default to not showing any to those deserving and in turn only make it harder on themselves to receive any.



re·spect
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noun
1.
a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.


Disagree completely. That new player you speak of will never give respect if he is constantly harassed and denigrated simply because he is the "new guy".

#1 Veterans don't deserve respect simply because they are veterans.
#2 Personal respect has nothing to do with abilities. If you are respecting individual abilities, you are not respecting the person.

Like PRO just said, he went about this about as respectfully as he could. He wanted a port to raise a flag on the board. He made his intent clear from the onset and gave options.

What was the response? Name calling and denigration.

Which one deserves respect here?

Does Danik deserve respect simply because he has been here longer?

That is the false statement....
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Re: Just another war : move along now...

Postby Admiral Nelson » Sun Apr 08, 2018 3:56 pm

When me and Wolfie were fighting, or when me and Rothschild fought. I would of said, there was a degree of respect that is not around in some of todays battles. :)

Which both of those fights, I lost something or other :)

"For it to be a good battle, both partys have to have a mutual respect for each other"... Said... Me?...
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