I think something is missing in translation as many are looking at it from their own sides, so i am going to change the names to protect the innocent
So I think this may be how some are seeing things, and i could be wrong..
There is a nation
There is a guild designed for this nation and the nation for the guild, they are interchangeable
There were people in this nation who didnt believe an eye for and eye, they believed an eye for 80 eyes, and if you want to keep them eyes, better not think of going for these eyes. and it happened over and over and over, and anytime anyone dared to go for an eye, the nation/guild would mass defend the over eye guy.
The eye guy had no problem attacking port pop or inf or even perceived friends of anyone on a whim, and if at any time anyone tried to go get that eye, the nation/guild would mass defend the eye guy.
Many in the nation/guild did not "actively" peruse the same lust for eyes, but they would go after anyone who tried to stop the eye no matter the issue and would even joke about the amount of eyes the eye guy had acquired. I think this constant defense left many newly blind people feeling angry at the whole nation/guild, while some may not have acted, they encouraged.
To put it another way... A murderer is always guilty, but what about the people who stood at the door beating up anyone who tried going into the room to stop the murder? Are they guilty?
A long time ago, one of my early mentors, a Mr. Thalius, told me that if I attack a person, expect to get attacked back... if i attack a guild, it would could drag my guild into it, if i started attacking ports, that would drag the nation into it. He told me a few times not to get involved or to back off certain situations (not that im really any type of fighter) because he did not want to bring the guild and Kiribati into conflict, so I listened because I didnt want to do that to my fellow guild and countrymen.
It seems to me less personal feniks, it looks like your adversaries were simply frustrated at people blocking the door and constantly loosing their eyes. So i know you feel frustrated to have been going through what ever your going through, but some of these people have felt that way for years, just read the forums.
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