Lolita X wrote:I agree Pro. There should be a drama free zone. Or as Dman would call it a safe-space.
But it’s says a lot when full a** grown adults need a moderator to handle their petty squabbles instead of I don’t know acting mature and getting passed a petty childish beef. Like children. “DEZ the big bully is being me to me so Imma need you to quit your full time job that supports your family to work this Volunteer job around the clock monitoring every little nuisance. And also Dez I can’t get over what the bully said to me 5 years ago because let bygones be bygones and o refuse to practice the act of forgiveness because I am not mature enough”.
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Here in lies the issue. No one NEEDS the moderators to do anything. What we have now is moderators doing nothing and alot of the "
full a** grown adults have simply stop because of it. That is what the "
full a** grown adults " have decided to do instead of feeding into it. It is the type of decision a "
full a** grown adults " should make.
Now the intent of the thread is to find out how we can get people to start posting again. For that, we do need the moderators. We don't need them to make
full a** grown adult decisions for us, we need them to set and enforce the g.round rules otherise we are exactly where we are today.
I am sure many of the
full a** grown adults , like myself who have cut my forum participation to next to nothing, are perfectly happy with ignoring the forums because of the bullshit. I used to post daily, multiple times a day. But in the spirit of the thread, we are simply stating what would need to happen for us to return to the level of forum activity we had in the past. This is how
full a** grown adults handle issues. We identify, discuss, and provide feedback and ideas.
But heh, I am perfectly happy going back to my corner and ignoring the forums like I pretty much have for the past 1-2 years.